FINDING YOUR TRIBE: It’s Good to Belong!

Where Petals Unfold, Hearts Flourish

Hi Lilies! Who you surround yourself with matters – let’s talk about finding your people, but before we do so, let me state here that it is important that you have a deep sense of who you are and what you are about, if you are not sure about these things, then you won’t be able to identify your tribe because you won’t know who/what you’re looking for in a tribe.

What is your tribe? Your tribe is a group of people with whom you have found a deep sense of safety and resonance, in this group, you feel a natural chemistry and energy. The connection is meaningful and real. There is a difference with how you feel and interact with your tribe, than you do with casual acquaintances. In a tribe, there’s a feeling of ease and belonging, being with your tribe feels much like being at home. In your tribe, there’s no need for pretense or desperate attempts to fit in. You are comfortable being your genuine, vulnerable self, without fear of judgement. They uplift, inspire and understand you, they celebrate your wins and are your biggest cheerleaders.

They offer constructive criticisms because they care. They remind you of your value and are not afraid to challenge you to grow, doing so, with respect and love. You can trust their opinions because you know it’s coming from a sincere place.

It often takes time to identify your tribe, this is done through spending quality time together and participating in activities together. It is important to know that your tribe will not necessarily last forever, people grow and evolve and the composition of your tribe may change to reflect your new needs (and theirs) and perspective. No matter what stage of life you are at, your tribe will show up.

Signs You’ve Found Your Tribe

1. Shared Vibes: You connect over values, interests or passions
2. Support System: They encourage and celebrate your wins
3. Growth Mindset: You challenge and inspire each other to be your best selves.
4. Authenticity: You can be yourself without judgement.

Finding Your Tribe in Different Areas

1. Hobbies: Book Clubs, sports teams or art groups
2. Professional Growth: Networking groups, masterminds or workshops
3. Personal Growth: Wellness groups, spiritual communities or support groups
4. Online Spaces: Social media groups, forums or online courses.

BENEFITS OF HAVING A TRIBE:

1. Growth
2. Accountability;
3. Inspiration.

TIPS ON IDENTIFYING YOUR TRIBE

1. Find people who share your interests, your values, your goals.
2. Be openminded, at face value, you may appear to be very different but you might find an unexpected kindred spirit in that same person
3. Be bold, don’t be afraid to reach out to someone with whom you think you share common interests with.

WAYS TO FIND YOUR TRIBE

1. Join Communities: Online groups, clubs or workshops aligned with your passions
2. Attend Events: Conferences, meetups, or networking events
3. Nourish Connections: Invest in relationships that uplift you
4. Be your authentic self
5. Volunteer: Give back and connect with others who share your values.
6. Start Something: Create a book club, group chat or workshop and invite likeminded people
7. Leverage Social Media: Join groups or follow hashtags related to your interests.
8. Ask Around: Friends, family or colleagues might know people in your desired tribe.

MAKING IT REAL

1. What qualities do you want in your tribe?
2. How can you connect with others who share your interests?
3. Share your tribe-building wins or ask for advice!
4. Try a tribe-building challenge – reach out to 3 people this week who could be in your tribe. Share with us in the comments where you found them and how you made the connection

GROWING GRACEFULLY:

Check out T’ribe’ by Sebastian Hunger. Keep growing, keep blooming!